Add Self-hosted STT/TTS/Embedding providers that read baseUrl per connection
instead of a fixed registry endpoint, so 9Router can point at whisper.cpp,
faster-whisper, Kokoro-FastAPI, llama-server, vLLM, Infinity, and similar
OpenAI-compatible local servers.
Self-hosted Embedding refuses to run without a baseUrl rather than falling
back to api.openai.com like openaiCompatNode does, since that fallback would
silently send input text and the API key to OpenAI under a provider named
"Self-hosted". Also fixes embeddingsCore to catch adapter build errors as a
400 instead of letting them escape uncaught, and bounds the upstream fetch
with FETCH_CONNECT_TIMEOUT_MS to avoid hanging forever on a dead endpoint.
Self-hosted TTS treats a bare model value as the model rather than the voice,
since the generic OpenAI TTS convention (bare = voice) is backwards for a
provider where the model is the variable part.
